If we were meeting for coffee, I would tell you how getting up to go to bible study this morning was so hard. . . but that an event that happened on Sunday made me finally get up and go. . . I would tell you how I spent the night in bed fighting off waves of nauseousness since I pushed myself too hard at Crossfit when it was almost 100 degrees outside . . . but other than that, I would tell you how much I love Crossfit and the wonderful people I have met.
We would probably talk about how much women are "supposed" to do in our generation. I would tell you about how I volunteered at a luncheon at the Junior League and overheard women talking about all the committees and boards they were on and how they had families too . . . they discussed all of their commitments with such pride. . . but my immediate thought was which comes first, family or volunteering? I would tell you that I have such a problem with over committing and how hard it is for me to say no. . . .We would talk about how for years I have had problems with nauseousness (which is the Lord's way of FORCING me to slow down) . . . sweet Nate always just takes care of me with water, making me lay down, turning the lights out, and having Gus get on the bed to cuddle with me. . . It is in those quiet times, when physically I cannot do ANYTHING (even though I have nine million things in my head that I NEED to do) that the Lord says, slow down. . . i am in control. . . whatever you are racing to can wait.. . and after laying down for a while, I can complete what I need to do. . . my hair might be in a bun instead of straightened, but oh well. . .
You would probably ask what happened on Sunday. . . and I would not be able to quit smiling. . . I would tell you with such excitement that my little brother proposed to my sweet friend, Rebecca!
And how proud I am of the way he pursued her . . . and how thankful I am that Rebecca is going to be a permanent part of our family (even though I have considered her a sister since the first month they began dating)
We would talk wedding details and and my heart would overflow with joy. . . I would describe the icing mess I made making petit fours. . .
and how my 5 Layer Carrot Cake almost didn't make it to my parents house
due to its precarious height. . .
due to its precarious height. . .
But that the night was perfect in every way and that I am blessed. . . just incredibly blessed.
And as our coffee date was ending and I was hugging you goodbye, I would slip you this recipe (and tell you how my dad warns that the smell attracts the neighbors:-) . . . just because I love you!
Dump Cake
1 (20 oz) can crushed pineapple (drained)
1 (20 oz) can cherry pie filling
1 box yellow cake mix (dry)
1 c. pecans, chopped
2 sticks butter, melted
In a 9x13 inch ungreased Pyrex dish, dump the ingredients in the order above. (drizzle the butter over the entire dish) Do not mix. Bake at 350 for 1 hour.




































